Tuesday December 9, 2008 6:36 pm
Why Women Confuse Sex for Love
The truth is that when we were… um… consummating the booty call, I felt so close to him in the emotional sense. I tricked myself into believing that he felt it too. And I thought it was love. It had to be love! How could anyone experience that feeling without love being involved?
It wasn’t love, he was just kinda talented. So I was confusing sex for love. And I think women do it all the time. Sure, there is no other way to be closer to a person in the physical sense. And what may feel so euphoric for a short time can really mess with our heads. Love is so much more than that. It’s what he can do outside the bedroom that’s most important.
Does he go out of his way for you?
Does he sacrifice things he loves to be with you?
Does he talk about your future together?
Does he call you the next day?!?! Come on!
Occasional midnight calls can be fun sometimes, we’ve all been there, but if you’re looking for true love, you won’t find it solely in the bedroom.
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