Did anyone watch The Bachelor last night?  I’m a huge fan and was so excited to see Jason get his chance to make out with 15 girls at once.  The best part of the show was when they showed the highlights for the season, and low and behold Deanna Pappas returns!!!  I KNEW IT!  For those of you who didn’t watch last season, Deanna almost let Jason propose and then yanked him up and told him she was in love with Jesse (who she recently dumped).  Honestly, I was shocked she would actually come back to the show and tell Jason she made a mistake.  The producers must be thrilled.  I cannot WAIT to see what happens.

So I sat there and wondered would he actually take her back?  I tried to discuss with my husband and he looked at me like, “Are you seriously asking me about The Bachelor?”  Obviously the show will get great ratings, but Jason looked truly shocked when she returned. Afterall, she crushed him on national television.

What would you do if the ex that crushed you all of a sudden came back and said “I made a huge mistake”?  We all dream of that moment, don’t we?  But the dream seems to change as time goes by.  In the beginning of a break-up, you really want him back, so you take him.  After awhile, you want him to profess his undying love and foolish mistake so you can say, “Sorry, but I don’t want you anymore” - the ulitmate payback.

The truth is if a guy wants you back, you should do what you feel is right.  If he was a terrible boyfriend in the first place, well maybe you don’t want to go down that road again.  But maybe the relationship ended too soon, and deep down, you want to give this person a second chance. You really need to think about giving someone a second chance.  Is he worthy of your time again?  Will he hurt you again?

For the new Bachelor, Jason, he actually got down on one knee and got rejected… that’s harsh.  Who knows if he’ll give her another chance but it definitely makes for good TV.